How to Choose Your Wedding Style: 5 Things to Consider

Daniel Pincus • Aug 18, 2023

Let your wedding theme reflect your unique personality.

A beautiful salmon and pink-colored theme wedding reception

Planning your wedding is no small matter. More often than not, weddings are special moments between you and your partner. A moment you want to share with your friends and family who have witnessed the progress of your growing relationship.


If you have been planning your wedding for a while already, then that's awesome! Your plans might be rough around the edges then, but you can use this time to polish and finalize them.


However,
if you haven't planned anything, you can start with the style you want and build it from there. Though with so many styles and options, the task can get overwhelming.


But never fear because here are the things you need to consider when choosing your wedding style.


1. List Down What You Like

This is your wedding, and it will become one of your lasting and memorable experiences. Surely you want to avoid looking back on your wedding day and frowning since you're not pleased with the colors and the design.


Therefore, you should make it an event where you're surrounded by your loved ones and the things you love or like. By listing down what you like, you'll be able to see a pattern and learn what your likes have in common. Doing so will make it easier for you to devise a theme from there.


2. Assess Your Everyday Style

Another way to get inspiration for the aesthetics of your wedding is to observe your everyday style. What does your interior design at home look like? What's the theme of your favorite restaurant? What vibe do you vibe with the most? Considering these will give you an idea of where to start planning your wedding style.


3. Get References from Real Weddings

Imagination can only do so much. Why not take your planning to the next level by referring to real weddings? This way, you'll be able to see how everything usually looks and visualize your own setting and get a clearer vision of how your theme will be portrayed.


4. Consider Your Venue and Season

If you already have a venue in mind and want to take your planning a step higher, how about considering your venue and season? If your venue is in a hotel, a modern theme will suit the place more, and if it's a beachside wedding, go with something tropical or summery.


When it comes to keeping the season of your wedding day in mind, you can incorporate it into your style. Whether it complements your theme or makes it stand out is your choice. You can also have your wedding style revolve around your favorite season, especially if it holds significant meaning to you and your partner.


5. Ask Your Loved Ones

If you and your partner are still struggling to get something together, you can ask for help from your friends and family. They say that the best mirror is an old friend, and more often than not, that holds true. Since friends and family have been with you for a long time, they more or less have your likes, dislikes, and tastes down pat. You can ask for suggestions and brainstorm with them to inspire you even further.


The bottom line is that there are no standards or strict rules you should follow to be able to pull off a perfect wedding. Your wedding style should please you and reflect your and your partner's preferences and personalities.


And just like the saying, 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder,' the perfect wedding depends on how happy the bride and groom are during one of the happiest days of their lives. Therefore, you should choose a style that feels right and makes you happy the most.


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